Jul 2, 2009

Since yesterday,
i had a shock of my life.

i never knew that humans were such scary creatures.
actually i did, but not to THIS extent.

i had never once thought that different genders had such different thinking.
it's scary to see how guys and girls behave so differently,
think so differently and have so different perspective of life.
and the worse thing is god have to make a guy and girl to fall in love to each other.
when their characters vary so differently.

misunderstanding then arises too.
a small action from a guy can be real funny and others will laugh.
but, it can also result in one really hating the guy to the core and thinking that he's childish.
a casual sentence from a girl can be real meaningful and others will continue to listen to her.
but, it can also result in one really thinking that the girl is a bitch.

it's also really scary to realise that people are hated for being ugly/fat/stupid.

a person being fat,
maybe is his/her responsibility because he's/she's too lazy and eat too much.
but, this is not enough to let the person be an outcast and hated.
what matters is the person's character, aint that the thing that we learnt for 16yrs?
and if one is fat, it's the person's problem,
not yours.
just focus on being skinny or normal-sized(?) urself.

a person being ugly,
being hated for that is simply ridiculous.
a person can't choose to be good-looking or ugly.
well, if a person is hated for being ugly,
then the world will be a place that is so cold,
so scary.

a person being stupid,
that, to me, is simply nonsense.
i have a belief that: no one is stupid.
it's either the person is lazy, or the person is just slow at certain things.
but not all the things.
so to even scold a person stupid,
i simply cannot accept it.
and what's more, if you wanna scold a person stupid,
you better make sure that no one is smarter than you.
which probably makes no one fit to scold people "stupid".

Another thing,
different people have different opinions on different things.
if you think "this thing" is nothing but a crap,
others might not think so.
"this thing" might be very important to others.
so before you start throwing all your vulgarities at that thingy,

either first, start with the words "i think" before you start scolding.
and when people stops you, you'd better stop.
because not everyone thinks like you.

or secondly, ask other people abt their opinions on that thing.
if people love it, you better shut up and keep all the complaints to yourself.
do not even try to brainwash people to think like you and hate that thing.
because, that's ridiculous and unreasonable.
different people likes different stuffs.


btw, i am not referring to anyone.
but if you think you have been acting like that,
then please 对号入座 and reflect. :D

Posted by Make me believe* at 9:55 PM